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happy birthday, babes

Do you want to hear a great story? I mean a really, really good one. Possibly my favorite of all time.

I’m going to dish it all; even though some parts are a little embarrassing, and almost all of it is completely crazy. It’s love, though, and that’s how I know it best. All heart and few hesitations.

Obviously I’m in Tacoma now, but this story starts back in Minnesota. I had been planning on moving to Seattle for a long time. Actively for about 6 months, but in my heart for about 18 years. Once I decided that I was actually going to make the jump I tapped every resource I could because I didn’t know anyone at all (which, after a crazy year, was kind of refreshing . I like fresh starts). After I talked to everyone I knew and exhausted those resources I ended up signing up for OKCupid (embarrassing part #1!) to try to connect with more people.

I emailed back and forth with quite a few people and got to know more about the area, etc. It turned out to be a cool resource for connecting with people that I wouldn’t have crossed paths with otherwise.

Then. I started talking to Scott. On October 26th. It’s now March 5th, only a little over 4 months later. This is where it gets crazy.

So. October 26th we start talking and the connection that we have is immediate. We’re 1700 miles away, though, and have no way of knowing whether it’s real or whether we’re creating it in our minds. So what do we do? Not a big deal, right? I’m planning on moving out there soon anyway so we can just wait it out and find out if this is real then, right? Yeah, no. Scott and I both wear our hearts on our sleeves and take “hopeless romantic” to another level. We couldn’t wait.

On October 30th (4 days later) Scott bought a plane ticket and I was on my way to the airport to pick him up less than a week after that. (First I had to go downstairs and tell my friends, who I was staying with at the time, that a strange boy from Washington was flying in and staying with us for a couple days. Jay+Jen, I love you!)

I get to the airport and am FREAKING OUT so I do the only thing I can think of; take a bunch of blurry cell phone photos to help me chill out.

I see that his plane landed and my heart is RACING. Racing. Luckily a really sweet man started talking to me, so I was forced to breathe and form words; something that wasn’t even feasible before that. I look over and see Scott coming through the doors and can tell that he’s totally freaking out, too, so I immediately switch into “someone I care about is having a hard time, I need to ignore what I’m feeling and help them” mode and walk over and give him a huge hug. We walked a few feet to get out of everyone’s way, Scott dropped his bags, and we gave each other the biggest hugs in the history of hugs; both of us still shaking, so nervous+excited+scared+ecstatic+holyshitourlivescouldchangeforeverinthismoment.

We had the most amazing weekend together; these were taken a couple hours after he got off the plane:

As insane as this sounds, the rest is kind of history. He flew back 2 weeks later, helped me pack my car, and we drove across the country. We’re living together in Tacoma and I have no way of explaining this connection to you or showing you how much love there is between us and how much we care about each other. Luckily I don’t have to try to explain it to him because he just gets it.

I’m overly ecstatic and fortunate that I get to spend every day with him. He’s so kind-hearted and genuine, he allows me to dream HUGE and is excited to live those dreams with me. He doesn’t just say that he supports me and believes in me, but he lives it every single day. I can’t wait for our future together. I can’t even wait for the rest of this day together.

Thanks so much, babe. Happy Birthday . I love you! <3

Also, thanks for being smokin’ hawt!;)

RAWR!

Thanks for some of my favorite moments ever:

And, because I think I’m hilarious; a video of Scott playing wii hula hoop:


March 5, 2010 - 6:48 am

eliesa - AHHHHHH!!! I Love YOU so.damn.much and it makes me SO happy to see you and Scott so simply-yet-over-the-top-amazingly-happy! I can’t WAIT to come and visit you guys! ;0)

Happy Birthday Scott! LOVEe

March 5, 2010 - 7:02 am

scott - Man, I am so lucky. It feels so good to be loved by you.

March 5, 2010 - 7:34 am

Lana Forseth - That is one of the best true stories that I have ever heard I am so happy for you guys! You are awesome together! Yay for another hopeless romantic.

March 5, 2010 - 8:38 am

Laura Biebl - Nice work getting it posted at midnight! I’m a sucker for fellow hopeless romantics and all their mushy stuff-HEART all your photos togethter :)
Happy Birthday, Scott! We will meet someday!

March 5, 2010 - 8:59 am

Kristen Gunnarson - i just read your story. it’s amazing. thanks for sharing!

March 5, 2010 - 9:14 am

deb(bie debbie doo) - Happy Birthday, Scott — and welcome to T-Town Sara!

March 5, 2010 - 10:18 am

Amanda Richelle - awwww, sweetness! Welcome to Tacoma!

March 5, 2010 - 10:37 am

Ryan Paul Plewacki - That’s great! A few weeks after you left, I asked elli who the hell this guy was. Where did he come from? She had no answers. Luckily, I ran into Alexa that night and she scooped me.

p.s. There is no such good romance story without embarrassing details. It’s the nature of it…

March 5, 2010 - 10:37 am

Hillary Panzer - :)

March 5, 2010 - 10:38 am

Sonia Bertek - Sara, Sara, Sara…thanks for being so honest with your story. So sweet. I do heart how much you love love. Kindred spirits, you and I :) Oh, and please wish Scott a happy happy bday!

March 5, 2010 - 7:46 pm

Herkimer - Thanks for posting this; just found your blog searching around. Keep up the good work!

March 8, 2010 - 1:45 pm

Sejla - What a GREAT story! I could read it over and over :)

March 5, 2010 - 9:16 am

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cherry blossoms . tacoma photography

cherry blossoms in tacoma, washington

The cherry blossoms are everywhere in Tacoma right now and they’re so beautiful+inspiring. They make gorgeous+dreamy backgrounds for family portraits. *HINT*;)

Also, you may have noticed that the blog got an overhaul (if you’re reading this on a feed reader jump out quickly to see it). This change wasn’t 100% intentional. I started playing with a new theme because… well… because I can’t help myself. I didn’t want to change the actual blog so I downloaded a plugin that promised me I would be able to edit the other theme on the back end and my regular blog would remain unchanged. After hours of switching billions of things I went to bed, then woke up yesterday morning, checked the blog, and learned that the I-promise-nothing-will-change plugin was a total liar. There were crazy menus all over my blog, widgits in crazy places, colors exploding everywhere, etc. So, in classic web-design fashion I launched this design WAY WAY WAY before I intended to. But! I like it so far, even though I’m sure I’ll continue changing it throughout the next few hours days weeks years forever.

Happy Wednesday!

December 31, 1969 - 4:00 pm
March 5, 2010 - 6:49 am

eliesa - And I’m jealous that you have cherry blossoms blooming already!

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